she/her
Jess Seburn
Death Doula + Rebel Grief Guide
Serving Worldwide + Winnipeg Weirdos
Let’s Start With The End
Life threw me some real curveballs - losing my best friend, her mother, my grandmother, and a cherished partner, all in just three years. It was like a wrecking ball to my world, leaving me sifting through the emotional debris, searching for meaning.
Grief: The Brutal Teacher
Let's be real: grief is a beast. It's messy, it's raw, and it hits you like a freight train. It's also a masterful storyteller. My grief yanked me out of my shell, pushing me onto a stage with a mic in hand, doing grief-centric stand-up comedy. Who knew?
A Chance to Make Change
Since 2021, I’ve been learning everything I can about grief, death, ritual, and care. I guide people through their own wreckage—those deep in grief and those nearing the end of life. It’s about changing the narrative, yes. But it’s also about telling the truth:
That we’re all going to die. And in the meantime, we get to decide how to live.
HOW THE HELL DID I GET HERE?
I’m a Death Doula and Rebel Grief Guide.
I help people face the hard stuff—death, loss, grief, planning, panicking, remembering, and letting go.
Sometimes I sit with the dying.
Sometimes I’m the solace for the ones left behind.
Sometimes I help the living get their shit together before it’s too late.
I offer grief support, end-of-life guidance, practical support, care tasks (yes, I can do your dishes and feed your cat!) ritual design, and the kind of conversations most people run from.
Wherever you are—at the beginning, the end, or somewhere in the messy middle—
I’m here to walk with you.
As a guide
As a companion
As a student
As a Friend at the End.
K, BUT WHAT DO I ACTUALLY DO?
Friend at the End is based in Winnipeg, located within Treaty No. 1 Territory, the homeland of the Métis Nation, and the traditional territories of many Indigenous nations, including the Anishinaabeg (Ojibwe), Anishininiwak (Oji-Cree), Dakota Oyate (Dakota), Denesuline (Dene), and Nehethowuk/Ininewak (Cree).